Why we work.

I never blog... and I have a LOT of updating to do.
But.. 
I'm going to post and let you know why my boyfriend, Zach and I work. 

He is silly with me. 

He is patient with me... because if you know me, you know that I can be a handful... but this wonderful man can handle all my wacky emotions, thoughts, goals and dreams.

He can handle my family (they are crazy, but I love them anyway). He loves my family and they love him back.

He's my best friend. The person I want to tell everything to. He is the first person I call or text, the person I can't wait to come home to every night to tell about the day. The person who makes me laugh when I want to cry, the one who hugs me when I need it. The person who supports me no matter what.

We work too because we both love the same things.. Husker football, the Chicago Cubs, country music, both love each other's families, our dogs, we both are firm believers in not taking life too seriously, and believe the same things spiritually. 

Ultimately, why we work is general appreciation for each other's strengths and weaknesses. For example, I can not do handy work around the house (especially anything involving a hammer- ha! but seriously) however, Zach is very talented in that area. Zach is a country boy and has some problems with spelling/grammar/technology :) however, I am talented there, so we trade off. He is a better cook than I, as a result, he does most of the cooking in our house. I'm more skilled with other tasks (cleaning, organizing, etc) - so that is how we trade off tasks in our house. And it works... keeps both of us happy,  keeps our home in order and keeps our dogs happy.

Excuse my mess there... that would be a result of Mr. Bruno on the right... he likes his toys and prefers them out and not put away. (haha, just like a child.. him and Sadie [left] are my "kids".. aka my fur kids)

To finish off... I am a lucky girl. I have the man of my dreams, who stands by me no matter what, makes me laugh, and supports me through the good, bad and ugly. Ultimately, that's what makes us work now and I hope will continue to work for us in the future.

I am linking up with The Daily Tay today! 

I'm at bloglovin!

Follow my blog with Bloglovin

I've switched over to bloglovin. The few people that read this blog -- head on over! I'm hoping to try and write again. Haha... we'll see where it goes.

Tough Questions.

1. If you could do one thing differently in your life, what would it be?

Oh gosh. Where do I begin? I'm only 23, but I've made plenty of mistakes... and still learning. Definitely watched my money closer and not screwed up my credit so much. Also, listened to my mom, got my CNA in high school and went to nursing school right away. However, I'm super stubborn and hard headed so I had to learn my own way. ;)

2. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
I'd love to be married, working as an RN in pediatrics or OB, with [hopefully] at least one child, if not two. But we will see. I at least have to  finish college... then the rest can be talked about.

3. Do you honestly want kids? 
Um, heck yes I do. I can't wait to be called mommy and to make my mom a grandma again. However, right now I work full-time and go to school full-time. Being a mom just isn't an option for me right now. When I'm done with school, that will be an option..but right now, no. So... I spoil my friend's kids and my nieces and nephews :)

4. What's the best moment of your life so far?
I don't think I have an actual "best" moment... jus the memories that can't be replaced. Snuggle time with my nephews, laughing with my friends, just being with the people in my life who are most important.

5. What's your life theme song?
Lessons Learned by Carrie Underwood or Stronger by Mandisa. Those two songs have gotten me through the last year with all the changes I've had. 

6. What is one thing you want to accomplish before you die?
Refer to number 2.

7. If you could choose one thing to be known for, what would it be?
My heart... being empathetic. Being able to love others unconditionally.

8. If you could do anything you wanted right in this very moment (no consequences, no fear, etc), what would it be?
Go fly and see my mom and bring my two siblings with. The last time we were all together was when I graduated high school (5 years ago..)

9. What has been the most challenging moment in your life?
The last year. Some days I look around and think, how in the world am I handling all this without alcohol and psychotropic meds? Haha. But seriously... I think God enables us to be strong when we have to be and he continually gives us the energy and strength we need to handle what is thrown our way. 

10. Summarize yourself in one word.
Growing.

My job :)

Linking up with Becky today for her Show & Tell link up about careers!

1. Tell us what you studied in college. Is your job now related to what you studied?


     Well, yes. I'm currently still in college, but I'm going to school for nursing. My job right now, I take care of individuals with disabilities... so my degree will definitely help me advance in that field.   2. Tell us what your everyday job looks like.

     Every day is different. Some days I get my butt kicked physically, some days I laugh with my clients so hard I can't breathe, and then other days I just go in, make sure the clients are taken care of and all of their needs are met and that's it. Some days are relaxed.   3. Do you have a picture of you at work? Show us.

Very blurry, but its the only picture I have of me at work.

4. In 10 years, what do you see yourself doing? Same thing? More? Tell us.

   I definitely see myself working as an RN, preferably in a hospital setting on the peds floor or working in the OB/nursery department. We will see though, I am open to just about any specialty.

5. Tell us what you have learned, and what {if any} recommendations you may have for those looking to go into the field you are in.


   Oh jeez. What haven't I learned? Patience, trust, empathy (over and over), you only get one chance to live--make the best of it, unconditional love, respect... really, I could go on and on.
  This field--working with adults with disabilities--hands on, is the best job I've ever had, it's what made me go back to school.. however, don't do it if you don't love it, it's not a job you can just go to work and go home... you have to love it or you can't do it. End of story. It's a tough job, demanding, challenging, frustrating at moments, even stressful... but I can honestly say, that hug I get from a client or something they say or do that makes me laugh... worth every. single. frustrating, challenging moment.

June 2

Wow. It was Christmas the last time I posted...holy cow so MUCH has happened!
1. Found a job I really like. I like my clients and the staff I work with. :)


2. I fell in love ;) more on that later.


3. I started a new school. This semester was definitely not my best work... trying to get accustomed to living with toddlers and staying up way too late with my best.. however, I'm determined next semester to put my best foot forward and do better!


Lessons I have learned:
Life is short. If there is one thing I have learned this last year.... it's that life is short. Tell the people that you love... that you love them.. every day. I have 4 best friends who (I try anyway, sometimes I forget) I tell them every I talk to them that I love them. Because, honestly, you never know when the last time will be. 


Patience is a virtue. And at that, one I do not possess much of. Only a few people know why, but the last 3 months have been requiring a LOT of patience from me. Which has been HARD. Really freaking hard some days. Most of the time, I can handle it. But... as I am a woman, some days, I break. I cry, I eat ice cream and watch a chick flick, and I'm better. But I do not recommend this to anyone. It sucks. But, I know that this situation is not permanent. It will not last forever. In a few years I will look back at this and know it made me stronger, made "this" better, and for that, I will be grateful.

You only live once. Ok, I am not going to run around and be like YOLO YOLO. No, not me. But in reality, you only DO live once.. so make the most of it. And that I have. I've done some crazy things this year....things that were highly unexpected...very unlike "me". Or the person I used to be. I've been hurt this year, and I've been incredibly, incredibly happy. Since December.... I've grown. I've lived, I've definitely learned. I'm not saying I went out and did law-breaking things. No. But I did things that were out of character for me. And you know what? IT WAS GREAT! I don't regret it whatsoever... and I 'm happier because of it.


I have the best support systems in this world. Not necessarily a lesson.... but a truth I come to realize more and more every day. The last 2 1/2 months, like I said, have been frustrating for me. But I have these AWESOME friends and family members who have been so supportive during all of this. My best friend especially, who just listens to me vent, eats ice cream with me and watches Grease with me at 1 in the morning. I would be so lost without her. I can't imagine my life without these wonderful people. They have been just fantastic lately. Giving me hugs when I need it, having a ear to listen, and being able to make me laugh so hard I forget about my frustrations. Love them all dearly.


So, I fell in love. 
I'm 100%, head over heels in love. A year ago, I thought I was going to marry the guy I was with.... but thankfully, God's plans are better than mine :)
I never thought it was possible to fall this hard, this fast. But it is. And there's nothing quite like it. To be honest, I enjoy it. There are moments I may not... but I know it's totally worth each moment. :)


So there's the last 6 months of my life in a nutshell..
have a good weekend!

Very quick update...

I am not writing a long updated post... but I now reside in Council Bluffs, love it!!! But what I really want to say is that.... I love when God turns a really crappy situation into something absolutely wonderful. God also allows things to fall apart so better things can come into place.

When I graduated high school in 2008, I did NOT think I would be where I am right now....I thought I would be graduating college in about 4 months. Whoops. WRONG. Nope, God had me take a few detours in the path of life....and now here I am starting school to become an RN-never in a million years would I have thought that I would become a nurse 4 years ago. God is SO good.

:) I am so happy where God has put me and the people he has placed in my life.... couldn't ask for better family, friends and life...

Big Red!!

Okay, so if you live in the midwest, you know that my TWO favorite teams are (Iowa Hawkeyes and the Nebraska Cornhuskers) are playing one another this Friday. I'm divided, yes, but I am a Husker through and through. Through the rest of the season, I cheer for the Hawks. But this one day....I'm going to root for my Huskers over the Hawks. 


I was born in Lincoln, I am a natural bred Husker. Even through some REALLY bad years... I still cheer for them and proudly shout, GO BIG RED! (I think I am slightly addicted to football)  No, but really, this Friday I am going to put on my Nebraska clothes and root the heck out of my team, and hope and pray they pull a W. :)


In other news, my best friend and I got told today we got our apartment!!! We get the keys December 3. I'm SO excited. My dreams are becoming reality. That is what I am thankful for this Thanksgiving... dreams and God's awesome ability to make a bad situation into a good one :)


Happy Thanksgiving All!!